I am a 64-year old SWM professional, intelligent, well-educated, creative, artistic, stable, confident, self-assured and self-reliant, healthy, quick-witted and financially secure. I don't know how to be anything other than completely honest. Open communication is paramount. I am very masculine, self-aware, respect myself, possess a strong personality, and am very assertive in my vanilla life. However, I have always been drawn to women who were aware of their sexual power over men and enjoyed using that power for their own pleasure.

I take pride in my submission, know its value and, therefore, do not give it to just any woman who says that she is a Domme. I also do not leave my dignity and self-respect "at the door" when I am with her (and know that she would not want me to do so). However, while I readily accept the fact that she may have me do or say things for her pleasure that may not appear to the outside world as "dignified," such acts or words, in her presence, are honorable tributes, sacrifices or services she deserves. I give up control for our mutual pleasure, not because I cannot exercise control. I do not forget who I am, even while on my knees.

I do not grovel for just any woman. Yet when the right woman claims me, I will kneel before her with devotion. While I do not necessarily subscribe to a belief in female superiority, I will know - when I find her - the right woman to place above and before myself. I am neither needy nor mindlessly obedient; but I take pride in obedience to the right woman and desire to please her 24/7. While I do not need a dominant, I want, crave and desire one. I would find great fulfillment in worshiping her.

I am 5'10"/165 (trim & athletic), in good shape (work out regularly at the gym) and live a healthy lifestyle. Those who know me have also described me as reflective, non-judgmental, a good communicator, at times silly and very creative. I'd add that I have a very active imagination. I also more often act on my instincts, in which I have real confidence. I'm very sensual, tactile and affectionate (and have no problems with showing that in public).

If I have a fetish, it is legs. I have always been drawn to a beautiful pair of legs more than any other part of a woman's anatomy (although having beautiful legs and feet are not essential if we match well in other areas). I also have a bit of a foot fetish, and am turned on by a woman who understands such things, has a particularly shapely pair of feet and keeps them well-pedicured (by me, if she wishes). Extended foreplay, for hours if possible, is something that I love! I'm also very turned-on by long gentle kissing, with lips just touching each other, that generates electricity between our bodies.

I live a very active and interesting life, and a have a diverse range of interests and passions - including photography, which I do professionally part-time; riding horses (English preferred); vintage sports and race cars, about which I write for various publications; travel off the beaten path; blues, rock and classical music; and modern art. I have traveled to much of Western & Eastern Europe, parts of the Far East, Middle East, Australia, New Zealand, Egypt, Africa and parts of the Caribbean. On my bi I would like to find that special woman with whom I can share all of that. My bucket list includes a number of countries, primarily third-word, located in several continents.
NOTE: In the interest of full disclosure and because the other categories below did not give me an opportunity to say that my situation is between one category or another, I want to be explain my current marital status. As you will see if you read further, I checked the option saying that I am separated. At the moment, however, I am married and are separating in just over a month. I will be explain the reasons if you would like to know. But one of several is that she thinks that the kind of sexual desires and needs I have are "disgusting. We have decided, because of a major and very stressful job change she undergøing to separate and ultimately divorce between her current and next job. I agreed to that plan because I do not want her move and separation because she now enough on her plate. Our separation will not officially occur until the first week of May.