I am a Mistress who has BDSM / Vanilla dating experience for my adult life. I know what it feels to be in a relationship especially when the woman is Dominant and very strict. Most men who are busy and dominant in their life and work experience or handle dominant position at work can eventually submit to a Mistress who knows what it takes to love them, play with them and tame them. First and foremost I consider being dominant as a relationship where power exchange is involved and where you find solace in a woman who knows your body and knows how to tease you sexually, psychologically, physically and most importantly emotionally. I respect all limits and want you to enjoy being a sub/slave/pet/husband to Me. Spanking is an art form. I am compulsive in my desire to deliver a spanking either erotic or disciplinary. My interests do expand far beyond spanking though I enjoy many different activities in daily life. I enjoy movies,outdoors,cooking,music, reading and continually expanding my knowledge on subjects both kinky, sociology, politics, historical etc.. I also enjoy a quality back and neck massage but hey who doesn't? I enjoy conversation with creative people the most and treasure the friends(vanilla or rocky road) I have made over the years.